With a couple of tweaks, this classic position works just as well for two people with penises as it does for any other couple. Therefore, Cooper recommends taking it slow at first until you and your partner get the hang of it. However, it can also be a little painful at first for the receiving partner so breathing deeply to relax the anus muscles is a huge help. "This position allows both partners to lie down so it's less effort and certainly easier for folks who may not have a lot of core strength," says Cooper.Īnother perk of this position is that "it can allow for deeper penetration since the receiving partner has created more opening with the raised leg," Cooper says. From this angle, they can slide their penis into your anus. Your partner then lies on their side, facing towards you with their body perpendicular to yours.Bring the bent leg as far as you can toward your shoulder, using your hand to hold the knee if needed.Lie on your back with one leg extended and the other leg bent at the knee."There is a lot of opportunity for eye-gazing and deep kissing and hand stroking," Cooper says. When you're in this position, "it's helpful to have the top person set a rhythm for thrusting since they have more ability to tilt their hips back and forth," says Sari Cooper, LCSW, a certified sex therapist and founder of Center for Love and Sex in NYC.Ī bonus of this position is that your face is very close to your partner's, giving you the chance to get extra intimate.
It's important to note that your partner will need to sit close enough that you can reach their anus for penetration.